The Availability of Donated Milk
"I didn't know donated milk was available./I didn't know that people did that./It wasn't available back when I had a baby."
I mentioned before that I recently put up a post on a mom forum inquiring about milk donation and what mamas thought about it. This is Part II of a series of discussions about responses and why we have a lot of work to do when it comes to donating milk.
One of the big problems surrounding milk donation is lack of knowledge and education about it's existence. Many mamas responded in one of the ways listed above. It appears, we aren't talking about it enough.
I'm not sure how to get the word out other than how I'm doing it. I talk about it, I blog about it, I have a Facebook page about it. I think if people who know about it talk about it, the word will spread. We have to share our experiences though. If we don't, no one will hear about it.
Milk donation has changed a lot over the years, and yes, it's been around a while. I can't say for how long, but certainly most of us have heard of wet nurses - women that nursed other women's babies for a variety of reasons. I can't say for sure how long donation of expressed milk has been happening. What I do know is that my mom donated when two of my sisters were babies. The older one is now 37 years old, so at least for that long. Probably longer. My mom said bottles were dropped at her house and she'd fill them up. Opposite of the milk man, is how she describes it. They'd pick up the full bottles and leave the empty ones.
Back then, they approached my mom about it. She hadn't heard of it before that point either. I'm not sure that nursing was any more popular in those days, but now, if you want to donate, you have to seek out the information. And to do that, you have to know about it first.
So, for all you expectant moms. Yes, donated milk is available. There are a couple different channels you can go through, but it is there. Yes, people do it. They do it out of the kindness of their own hearts. For many it's a matter of not wanting to waste or throw out a stash of milk they no longer need that is taking up freezer space. For others, it is a labor of love as they take the time to pump extra milk specifically for the purpose of donating. Finally, yes, it was available "back then." Though this time period is vague, it is likely that many mamas that have children over the age of 37 may not be as internet savvy, and perhaps don't have accounts on mom forums; but, that means that the majority of moms that responded probably had babies in a time period where I know for a fact milk donation was available.
Please spread the word. Let mamas know they have options.
See the next post in this series, Part III - Bodily Fluids
If you missed Part I of this series, it can be found here.
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